themselves

plural pronoun

them·​selves t͟həm-ˈselvz How to pronounce themselves (audio) t͟hem- How to pronounce themselves (audio)
1
a
: those identical ones that are they compare they sense 1
used reflexively, for emphasis, or in absolute constructions
nations that govern themselves
they themselves were present
themselves busy, they disliked idleness in others
b
: himself or herself : himself, herself
used with an indefinite third person singular antecedent
nobody can call themselves oppressedLeonard Wibberley
2
: their normal, healthy, or sane condition
were themselves again after a night's rest
Can they be used as an indefinite subject?: Usage Guide

They used as an indefinite subject (sense 2) is sometimes objected to on the grounds that it does not have an antecedent. Not every pronoun requires an antecedent, however. The indefinite they is used in all varieties of contexts and is standard.

Can they, their, theirs, them, and themselves be used as singular pronouns?: Usage Guide

They, their, theirs, them, themselves: English lacks a set of common-gender third person singular pronouns and a corresponding common-gender third person possessive adjective that can be used to refer to indefinite pronouns such as everyone, anyone, and someone. Writers and speakers have supplied this lack by using the plural pronouns they, theirs, them, and themselves, and the adjective their.

and every one to rest themselves betake William Shakespeare
I would have everybody marry if they can do it properly Jane Austen
it is too hideous for anyone in their senses to buy W. H. Auden

These plural forms have also been put to use in indefinite references to singular nouns that stand for many persons.

'tis meet that some more audience than a mother, since nature makes them partial, should o'erhear the speech William Shakespeare
a person can't help their birth W. M. Thackeray
no man goes to battle to be killed.—But they do get killed G. B. Shaw

The use of they, their, theirs, them, and themselves in reference to pronouns of indefinite gender and indefinite number is well established in speech and writing, even in literary and formal contexts. These forms have also been adopted by individuals whose gender identity is nonbinary, as illustrated in sense 3d of they. The singular pronoun themself is also increasingly gaining acceptance as an alternative to themselves when referring to just one person.

I do not believe there is an artist in history who hasn't asked themself—at least once—"Why do I do this?" Mary Gabriel
… uses he and they pronouns and refers to themself as the governor's son … Eduardo Medina and Jacey Fortin

Word History

First Known Use

13th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1a

Time Traveler
The first known use of themselves was in the 13th century

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“Themselves.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/themselves. Accessed 30 Nov. 2024.

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themselves

pronoun
them·​selves t͟həm-ˈselvz How to pronounce themselves (audio)
t͟hem-
1
: their own selves
nations that govern themselves
they themselves were present
2
: their normal or healthy condition
were themselves again after a night's rest

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