surly

adjective

sur·​ly ˈsər-lē How to pronounce surly (audio)
surlier; surliest
1
: menacing or threatening in appearance
surly weather
2
obsolete : arrogant, imperious
3
: irritably sullen and churlish in mood or manner : crabbed
surlily adverb
surliness noun
surly adverb

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In its very earliest uses in the 16th century, surly meant "majestic" or "lordly." These early meanings make sense when you know that this word is an alteration of Middle English "serreli," which probably comes from "sire, ser," a title formerly used as a form of address for men of rank or authority. So how did a word with such lofty beginnings come to be associated with grumbling rudeness? Arrogant and domineering behavior is sometimes associated with men of rank or position, and "surly" came to mean "haughty" or "imperious." These meanings (which are now obsolete) led to the "rude" sense that is very common today.

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sullen, glum, morose, surly, sulky, crabbed, saturnine, gloomy mean showing a forbidding or disagreeable mood.

sullen implies a silent ill humor and a refusal to be sociable.

remained sullen amid the festivities

glum suggests a silent dispiritedness.

a glum candidate left to ponder a stunning defeat

morose adds to glum an element of bitterness or misanthropy.

morose job seekers who are inured to rejection

surly implies gruffness and sullenness of speech or manner.

a typical surly teenager

sulky suggests childish resentment expressed in peevish sullenness.

grew sulky after every spat

crabbed applies to a forbidding morose harshness of manner.

the school's notoriously crabbed headmaster

saturnine describes a heavy forbidding aspect or suggests a bitter disposition.

a saturnine cynic always finding fault

gloomy implies a depression in mood making for seeming sullenness or glumness.

a gloomy mood ushered in by bad news

Examples of surly in a Sentence

went about his chores in a surly huff, totally annoyed that he was stuck at home on this beautiful Saturday the surly receptionist told us we'd have to wait outside in the rain
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There are coaches in the Premier League currently unable to navigate an interview without a surly comment or flash of ego. Sebastian Stafford-Bloor, The Athletic, 1 Aug. 2024 Fed up with his surly demeanor and negative attitude, the station hires psychologist Dr. Ivy Reed (Essence Atkins) to infuse a level of emotion into Poppa’s talk show. Aramide Tinubu, Variety, 21 Oct. 2024 Meanwhile, Dexter’s own co-worker in the Miami Police Department, the surly James Doakes, is tightening the screws in his grudge against Dexter. Daniel Dockery, Vulture, 23 Aug. 2024 Trolling, today, having slipped the surly bonds of 4chan, is no longer subculture. Megan Garber, The Atlantic, 23 Oct. 2024 See all Example Sentences for surly 

Word History

Etymology

alteration of Middle English serreli lordly, imperious, probably from sire, ser sire

First Known Use

1523, in the meaning defined at sense 1

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The first known use of surly was in 1523

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“Surly.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/surly. Accessed 28 Nov. 2024.

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surly

adjective
sur·​ly ˈsər-lē How to pronounce surly (audio)
surlier; surliest
: having a rude unfriendly disposition
surliness noun
Etymology

Middle English serreli "lordly, imperious," from sir "a man of rank"

Word Origin
The word surly, which describes someone with a very bad temper, was at one time spelled sirly. It comes from the familiar word sir, which has been used for centuries as a title of respect for a gentleman or nobleman. Sirly was originally used to describe a person who behaves in a very proud way—the kind of person who might insist on being called "sir." It was similar in meaning to the word lordly. Many years of use brought about the changes in spelling and in meaning that have given us the modern word surly.

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